You’ll be missed

A “through the bible” devotion from 2 Chronicles 20 and 23.

As I write this I am getting ready to officiate and preach at a memorial service. Family and friends will gather with tears of sadness and smiles of remembrance. It’s a bittersweet moment to say goodbye to a loved one, and release them to the care of the Lord.

Do you want to read something sad? How about this description of the end of King Jehoram’s reign: “He departed with no one’s regret” (2 Chronicles 21:20).

Or how about these words after the death of Queen Athalia: “So all the people of the land rejoiced, and the city was quiet after Athaliah had been put to death with the sword” (2 Chronicles 23:21).

What do you think it’s like to be someone no one will miss? What would it be like to be a person whose death no one grieves? I guess it happens every day. I’m sure there are those who are glad when the homeless population decreases. Few grieve the John or Jane Doe who dies on the street.

The pendulum swings both ways. Some can’t stop grieving the death of a loved one. They continue to celebrate birthdays and feel the emptiness of holidays for many years after a funeral. On the other hand, for others, life goes on without the deceased. They are not forgotten, but they only occasionally come to mind.

I can assure you of this: you’ll be missed. You have no idea how many peoples’ lives you’ve touched and the difference you’ve made. There will never be another you. You’ll be missed.