It could be worse

A “through the bible” devotion from Job 11.

I’m not 100% sure, but I think these words came out of the Covid years: “But did you die?” No matter what a person went through, whether illness, natural disaster, or financial struggles, someone began using the grave as a yardstick. You’re name’s not inscribed on a tombstone? Stop whining and be thankful.

Zophar is another friend who has words these wonderful words of wisdom for Job: “Know then that God exacts of you less than your guilt deserves” (Job 11:6). In other words, “It could be worse!” And, “You’re getting off easy.”

How interesting that someone attempts to mitigate a tough moment by pointing out an even worse situation. I guess that’s one way to help someone through a difficult time. However, it’s neither helpful nor comforting. Job’s response? “Gee, thanks for the update. Why don’t you (and God) just leave me alone?”

After reading all the way through the book of Job, I realized that his friends were more helpful when they kept their mouths shut. Seven days of saying nothing after Job experienced his losses was paradise compared to a day of meaningless dialogue.

You don’t have to say anything. Your presence means more.