I believe one thing that sets someone apart from most others is their willingness to listen.
I say that because the norm is a person who talks about themselves. They ask, “How are you?” But they won’t listen to your answer. Whether you reply, “Fine,” “Terrible,” or “Living the life,” they will launch into a monologue about themselves, their family, their projects and their problems.
What a difference when you encounter someone who responds, “What do you mean by that?” Or, “Tell me more about that.” Maybe a simple, “What else?” They show their willingness to listen with a nod and a smile. Nothing more. These people are few and far between.
Such a person is not afraid of silence. They know you need a moment to think about your feelings, shape an answer, and unravel your thoughts.
You can tell they are listening because they rephrase and repeat your thought, making sure they understand what you’ve said.
This person neither approves nor judges what you’ve shared. They do not talk about their similar experience. They don’t tell you what to do. Or what they would do if they were you.
They are that rare and unique person who listens.
Waite for it... 