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This is the way

Posted on by William Douthwaite
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Some “through the bible” thoughts from Romans 8.

“For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us” (Romans 8:18).

“For we know that the whole creation has been groaning together in the pains of childbirth until now” (Romans 8:22).

The apostle Paul transforms our view of suffering in the eighth chapter of Romans. What if suffering and sorrow were not simply reminders of mortality, but labor and delivery for new life to come?

Since we believe God has the upper-hand on everything, even suffering must be a part of his plans and purposes.

What?

Well, if the cross is any indication, suffering and even death are a part of God’s overarching plan. Suffering produces endurance, character, and hope (Romans 5:3-4). Want to experience comfort? It only comes after suffering (2 Cor. 1:7). Want to experience resurrection? You have to die (ugh) (Phil. 3:10-11).

Sore muscles means I am doing some beneficial workouts. My body reveals its power to heal after I’ve cut myself (this happens a lot). Bumps and bruises teach me not to do that again.

You learn from your mistakes? Failure is a better teacher than success? Grasping victory from the jaws of defeat? Exactly.

The next time you’re struggling, look at it as labor pains rather than death pangs.

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It could be worse

Posted on by William Douthwaite
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A “through the bible” devotion from Job 11.

I’m not 100% sure, but I think these words came out of the Covid years: “But did you die?” No matter what a person went through, whether illness, natural disaster, or financial struggles, someone began using the grave as a yardstick. You’re name’s not inscribed on a tombstone? Stop whining and be thankful.

Zophar is another friend who has words these wonderful words of wisdom for Job: “Know then that God exacts of you less than your guilt deserves” (Job 11:6). In other words, “It could be worse!” And, “You’re getting off easy.”

How interesting that someone attempts to mitigate a tough moment by pointing out an even worse situation. I guess that’s one way to help someone through a difficult time. However, it’s neither helpful nor comforting. Job’s response? “Gee, thanks for the update. Why don’t you (and God) just leave me alone?”

After reading all the way through the book of Job, I realized that his friends were more helpful when they kept their mouths shut. Seven days of saying nothing after Job experienced his losses was paradise compared to a day of meaningless dialogue.

You don’t have to say anything. Your presence means more.

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Why is this happening to me?

Posted on by William Douthwaite
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A “through the bible” devotion from Job 4 and 5.

After seven days of silence, Job and his friends spend lots of chapters trying to figure out why his life is in shambles.

The first friend to weigh in is Eliphaz. He has a simple explanation:

Who, being innocent, has ever perished?
    Where were the upright ever destroyed?
As I have observed, those who plow evil
    and those who sow trouble reap it. (Job 4:7,8)

Eliphaz, like a lot of people, believes in some kind of spiritual karma. If bad things are happening, you must have done something to deserve it. That’s not necessarily a bad thing. He goes on to say,

Blessed is the one whom God corrects;
    so do not despise the discipline of the Almighty. (5:17)

While there is a kernel of truth in his words, we know there’s a whole lot more going on. Job hasn’t done anything to deserve so much loss in his life. In fact, his suffering at the hands of Satan was because he was extraordinarily faithful. Remember God’s evaluation of Job? “He is blameless and upright, a man who fears God and shuns evil” (Job 1:8).

So what’s going on when you want to scream, “Why is this happening to me?”

  • Sometimes you know why. You screwed up. Plain and simple. You opened your mouth (again). You smoked for years and years. You lied. You ate the whole box of donuts (again). You built your home in a flood area. You didn’t floss.
  • Sometimes someone else screwed up. They backed into your car but never left a note. They lied to you (again). They stole your identity. They spilled red wine on your light gray carpet. They didn’t tell you that house you bought was in a flood area.
  • Sometimes stuff happens. Volcanos erupt. Cold weather freezes pipes. Viruses spread. Cancer cells multiply. Pregnant mothers miscarry. Rivers overflow their banks and flood communities. Bugs eat your garden vegetables.
  • Sometimes God kicks you out of paradise. Sometimes he sends plagues. Sometimes God raises up foreign armies for invasion. Sometimes his own son is executed.

It’s a broken world filled with broken people, so broken bones, broken hearts, and broken promises shouldn’t surprise us. Even if we do everything right.

When it’s a really good day, why not ask the same question? Why not wonder, “Why this happening to me?” Or, “What did I do to deserve this?” It wasn’t because you were exceptionally good. It’s because God is. Every good and perfect gift comes from him.