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How Technology Transformed My Ministry Experience

Posted on by William Douthwaite
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Daily writing prompt
How has technology changed your job?
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I’ve been retired for nearly three years now, but as a parish pastor, technology had a huge effect on how I did ministry in a local congregation.

When I started working in my first congregation in the mid-1980s, there were three ways to keep in touch with church members. You either sent a letter in the mail, called them on the phone, or knocked on their door.

By the time I retired in 2022, I had mastered many electronic ways to communicate with the church. While I still sent letters and made phone calls, I also sent email, text messages, messages through social media platforms, and broadcast an electronic newsletter each week. I never went to someone’s home without an appointment. People either weren’t home or just didn’t answer the door.

That being said, all that technology failed to silence the lament, “people don’t know what’s going on!” People just had more noise to ignore.

When I graduated from the seminary, I had a modest collection of books that I used for sermon and bible study preparation. That collection grew when I was at a church that gave me a generous annual book allowance. By the early 2000’s I found most of the information I needed on the internet, so I sold and gave away most of my printed books.

The Covid pandemic closed down in person worship services for our congregation. We were forced to learn how to broadcast worship from an empty church to members’ homes. I started with an iPhone propped up on some hymnals, moved up to my laptop balanced on a stack of bibles, until we invested in some digital camera technology. It was only a few weeks before we resumed worship in the sanctuary, but once we started, we just couldn’t stop broadcasting weekly services. As a result, people watched from all over the world. Some viewers financially supported the ministry, folks I would never meet.

When it was time to choose the next pastor, the leadership was not limited to a written resume. The selection committee interviewed every candidate via Zoom. Every prospect had a collection of online sermons to listen to. The process demanded a lot of time and energy.

Technology has been a blessing for the church since not every generation embraces new technology. But it’s also been a blessing. The church is here to communicate good news, and technology has helped her do that in so many ways.

Posted in Life

Younger

Posted on by William Douthwaite
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Daily writing prompt
What is one word that describes you?
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My answer to this very challenging prompt is “younger.”

I feel a lot younger than my birth certificate says I am. I feel twenty years younger than my age. I am more active than I was back then, and I am healthier than most of the people I know in my age group.

I also enjoy being around younger people. I love to teach middle school aged-students. I love playing with my grandchildren, all of whom are ten years old and younger. I love toys, too, and in some ways have just never grown up.

I like being around people who are younger than me. They keep me in touch with new ideas, music, and trends. I definitely handle new technology better than most people in my age demographic.

This was a hard prompt, but I’m satisfied with my answer. I considered “diplomatic,” “consistent,” and “creative.” I’m glad I settled on “younger.” I suppose one day I’ll have to grow up.

But not yet.

Posted in Through the Bible Devotions

Bring on the summer!

Posted on by William Douthwaite
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Daily writing prompt
What is your favorite type of weather?
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My short answer: summer.

Yep. I love summer. Even in Florida, where I’ve lived for twenty eight years. `

I love hot temperatures, humidity, waking up to 75 degrees in the morning, and a day of shorts and nothing else.

I love sweating from the moment I walk out the door in the morning. I love the boiling hot car seats that only cool off after two minutes after starting the car AC. I love walking the dogs in warm predawn weather, knowing that this is as cool as it will get all day.

I love sweating while working in the yard or a sweaty garage gym workout. I love feeling the sun beat down on me while walking the dogs at dawn or cutting the lawn in the evening.

I love having to smear sunblock all over my body every day. I love the rumblings of distant thunderstorms. I love the longer hours of daylight.

Everyone else escapes the hot summer months. I relish them!

Posted in Life

Algebra

Posted on by William Douthwaite
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Daily writing prompt
Who was your most influential teacher? Why?
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I was blessed to have so many outstanding teachers in elementary, junior high, and high school.

There is one that stands out. Mrs. Flaig was my eighth grade algebra teacher who helped me take my first step academically and mathematically.

Back then (1972), you were a smartie if you took eighth grade algebra. Mrs. Flaig had a reputation for being a very demanding teacher. No nonsense. Strict. Very strict.

The class was arranged in five rows of five wooden side-desk chairs. Each day, she would call a row and a column, and we would dutifully go to the front or side chalkboards to do an assigned problem. Those who’s rows or columns weren’t called had to check the work of those at the board. If either failed, we heard about it.

I rarely failed. I loved the problems and the solutions. I loved the equations, the variables, the graphs, and the solutions. Mrs. Flaig demanded much, recognized elegant solutions, and encouraged us to work hard.

Mrs. Flaig let me know in no uncertain terms that I was good at math. Her encouragement was all I needed to launch me into a world of mathematics. I was the best in the class in algebra. I loved ninth grade geometry. I was passionate about high school math. When I went to college I majored in mathematics. My brain was wired for math.

Mrs. Flaig guided me into an academic world of math and science that continued through college and my first job in computer programming. While I spent my career in pastoral ministry, I have always approached life through the eyes of a mathematician, with a constant eye toward patterns, series, equations, and variables.

Thank you, Mrs. Flaig.

Posted in Through the Bible Devotions

My choice: Cross-country cycling

Posted on by William Douthwaite
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Daily writing prompt
You’re going on a cross-country trip. Airplane, train, bus, car, or bike?
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While I would love to take a long train ride across the country or take the bus, my first choice would be biking from the Pacific to the Atlantic ocean.

I know it takes about three months to cycle across America. I’ve followed the Instagrams of a few cross country riders, and I would love to bicycle those three thousand or so miles.

The physical challenge of such a ride appeals to me. I love being outdoors, laboring uphill and careening down the other side. I relish traveling light, with everything I need in just a few panniers front and back. I’m more than ready to spend the night in a small tent by the side of the road in the middle of nowhere.

It’s not an easy way to cross the country, but for me, it’s better than being cooped up in a car, train, or bus.

Posted in Life

Go for a walk, drink water, eat a snack, and pet your dog

Posted on by William Douthwaite
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Daily writing prompt
What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?
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I wonder what the writer of this prompt meant by “negative feelings?”

Is it disappointment because I didn’t perform well? Or sadness because I just lost a good friend? Am I afraid of an approaching storm? Or am I angry because someone dinged my car and drove away? Did I look in the mirror and cringe at how I looked? Did I look at you and cringe at how you looked?

We live in a world where we’re not supposed to hurt anyone’s feelings. We’re only supposed to say positive, affirming words. Negativity and pessimism are big no-nos.

Guess what? You’re going to feel anxiety, insecurity, fear, guilt, shame, and anger every day.

How do I deal with all that negativity?

Go for a walk.

That’s it. Get up and move. Walk away. Walk outside. Walk around. A simple change of location changes how you feel. Moving, breathing, heat or cold, singing birds, barking dogs, the sun, a breeze, or a star in the sky refocuses your thoughts. Suddenly negative things aren’t foremost in your mind anymore.

Also, drink some water.

Feeling negative? Chances are you need to hydrate. Most of us don’t drink enough water. Your body and mind might just be saying, “You’re thirsty.”

In a similar light, eat a snack. It’s OK to snack. It will probably make you feel better.

Still not there? Pet your dog. You’ll enjoy it, he or she will enjoy it, and life will be good again. Don’t have a dog? Get one. A wagging tail effectively counters negative feelings.

That’s all I’ve got. Four simple and effective actions to counter negativity in your life.

Posted in Life

I’m lost

Posted on by William Douthwaite
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Daily writing prompt
What activities do you lose yourself in?
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Lose myself in? Meaning: I lose track of time, and suddenly an hour (or more) has passed, and I didn’t realize it.

That’s a tough one. I am super aware of time. I have a sense of how many minutes have passed. Or how many seconds are left until the timer goes off. I often wake up just before the alarm goes off.

I think I learned that from running. I paced myself by with the rhythm of my breath. My breathing helped me pace myself. I developed a good sense of quarter, half, and mile pacing by the music running through my head. I’ve never worn headphones to listen to music when I run or walk. Instead, I hear songs from high school band half time shows in my head. Or pieces I’ve learned for auditions and performances. Or a song from the radio I heard yesterday.

So, I guess I can easily lose myself in melodies from the past, in my mind, or those earworms that refuse to go to sleep.

Ok, so I lose myself when I run. But I don’t run that much any more. (My feet hurt too much.)

So what do I lose myself in?

Painting rocks with grandkids. Long walks with the dogs (as long as I turn off my fitness tracker). When I’m watching a really good movie. (When I don’t check my watch to see how much longer).


Posted in Through the Bible Devotions

Movies We Watch Again and Again

Posted on by William Douthwaite
Daily writing prompt
What movies or TV series have you watched more than 5 times?
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At first I thought, “I don’t watch movies that many times.” And then I remembered the ones I watch over and over:

  • “Independence Day” (We’re big Will Smith fans). We watch this every fourth of July. We’ve got the DVD.
  • “Castaway” (We’re big Tom Hanks fans, especially where he celebrates making a “fi-yah!”) We’ve got this DVD, too!
  • “Jungle Cruise” (A grandson always asks to watch this one)
  • “Avengers: Infinity War” (Same grandson likes this, too.)
  • “Avengers: End Game” (Yep, same grandson!)

There are probably a whole bunch of Disney films we’ve watched over and over with grandkids, like “Frozen,” “Frozen 2,” and “Moana.”

I’ve watched a lot of movies after supper and before bedtime when the grandchildren have spent the night at out house. When you are under ten, you go to Marvel and Disney, which is okay by me.

If I were choosing movies, I would watch the “Lord of the Rings” trilogy more than a few times. And I am a big fan of “Eddie and the Cruisers” movies, which I have watched a few times. But maybe not five.

What about “The Sound of Music” or “The Ten Commandments”? The networks put those out there every year, and those are perennial favorites.

Some movies never get old.

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Why I Don’t Believe in Superstitions: A Personal Reflection

Posted on by William Douthwaite
Daily writing prompt
Are you superstitious?
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Friday the thirteenth? Thirteenth floor? Not a problem.

Black cat? Walk under a ladder? Broken mirror? I don’t give it a second thought.

I don’t keep wearing the same socks to keep a win streak going, either.

I’m not superstitious.

However, when someone says, “I hope it doesn’t rain!” I’ll catch myself responding, “Don’t jinx it!” As if the weather was subject to our random comments.

I’m not big on coincidences, either. I’m a logical thinker and like to investigate cause and effect. I have a pretty good handle on numbers and probabilities, too. Plus, my faith reminds me that God is still in control.